In today's marriages, sexual problems and sexual reluctance between spouses are more common than it is thought.
Anadolu Medical Center Specialist Psychologist Selin Karabulut says that at least two of the three couples complained of sexual reluctance or sexual aversion to her husband.
"It is necessary to distinguish between the sexual reluctance of the spouses towards each other. According to psychiatric diagnostic criteria, 'decreased sexual desire disorder' causes continuous or repetitive, significant difficulties or interpersonal relationships, sexual fantasies and sexual activity. This condition is independent of the general medical condition and the side effects of the medications used. diy
Marriages of people who have less desire for sexual intercourse and have decreased sexual thoughts may be affected negatively by these problems. Emotional, social and economic problems between couples, as well as psychiatric disorders can cause sexual reluctance, voicing Anatolian Health Center Expert Psychologist Selin Karabulut, "Extramarital relationship we call extramarital relationships, spouses against each other can trigger the unwillingness of the new woman. the fact that the child is in the focus of attention can reduce sexual desire in men and women before, "he says. Karabulut, sexual reluctance to live in 5 out of 5 people also points out that women.
Women are having more sexual reluctance
Karabulut stated that the most experienced women in our country experienced sexual reluctance by being influenced by their sexual information, sexual culture and sexual identity that was tried to be gained in this way. "Stating that sexuality is a taboo, being seen as a woman's duty, stories told about the first night, bans, traumas and moral values It often triggers sexual reluctance in women.
Spouses need to express themselves sexually
Karabulut, who loves each other, respects, communicates well, shares their feelings, can laugh and enjoy the common denominators and solve their problems, often expresses that they do not have problems in their sexual lives, saying that the relationship of the couples will not lose the excitement of keeping alive. Karabulut, couples who do not want to lose the excitement in marriage; once a year to go on a childless vacation and sexual intercourse, they want to express their wishes and desires.
How to resolve sexual reluctance
"Sexual reluctance is a problem to accept. Women often 'sexuality is not important to me at all, I do not search throughout my life,' I can form sentences, but even if you pass such a sentence in your mind there is a problem," said Karabulut, " Sometimes couples don't stay together for months or even years to punish each other, this is a pathological process, the quality of the relationship has deteriorated.The first thing to do after you acknowledge that this is a problem is to talk to your partner about it, waiting for him to understand, making predictions, inventing scenarios is not right. Then, thanks to expert support, a description of the situation, reasons and solutions will be found, "he continues. Karabulut, sexual reluctance in marriage will be solved by making a healthy relationship between spouses says.
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